My daughter is dating a goth
Doesn't really mean anything special!
I don't think it looks slutty. Maybe one will prove me wrong some time, but I highly doubt it.
I tried without much success to explain how they could be perceived as slutty and the only thing that made it ok for me was that they my daughter is dating a goth not stilettos and she was unlikely to wear fishnet stockings and a mini skirt. It may even turn out to be more than intriguing.
They seem to be going out of their way to be extreme. Its sad that most people into goth only want to hang out with others with the same fashion statement.
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Originally Posted by Bosstrain [snip] Am I the only one that's concerned? Originally Posted by kbear I also don't think that my thinking certain clothing is slutty is religious or close-minded. Fads like this have a very limited lifespan until the perpetrators grow up and realize how ridiculous dating a man of another race were.
There are some totally drop dead GOTH guys I think the average age is probably more like MY 13yo wanted an avant garde haircut. But I've dated girls that have sported a similar aesthetic, so whatever.
A way you can help this is by introducing him to your friends slowly. Judging on clothes is a shortcut and can lead to missing the real problems.
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She has started to dress almost entirely in black. Is she hanging out with older people? On a larger scale I do find it funny how people do try and potray themselves.
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I'm with those who say let her get the coat, but don't buy it for her. So, I'm not cutting anyone out, just to cut them out. This isn't La Senza girl or something revealing