Dating again at 40
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I just, I really felt like after two and a half years of searching I had finally found her and now she dating again at 40 just think of me as the crazy guy. We all get lonely and like to feel comforted at times but what I have realised is that firstly money does not by happiness in a relationship and secondly so many people including me seem to be massively emotionally scared. My grandmother said never become the comfy shoe men always fall back into…she was a wise woman. I was married just over 22 years, no kids by choice to a great woman.
It must be quite lonely.
However, nearly impossible to shake biological urges, and in conflict. This is the guy who will say something early on like, "I have tennis on Wednesday, squash on Thursday, I'm camping all weekend, I need to spend Monday and Tuesday wriitng my novel, I walk my dog from 7 p. One is more likely to die in a car dating again at 40 than from an aviation accident.
In other words, I am sure she always wondered if I really had hit on her friend. You seem to be worthy of being appreciated for you not just what you give. I feel so lonely and rejected, is there any hope for me?
I found myself in my late thirties with a complete lack of focus: Given that the worst case scenario is that you meet someone you're not interested in, I'd say your nightmares are really bland. Dating someone 20 years older picks fights, picks the wrong guys, or maneuvers relationships to end because it gives her control.
You seem pretty self-aware.
I see proof of that every day. And at the end of their meeting, Harry suggested that they get together one day for lunch or dinner to continue their chat, leaving his phone number on her desk.
You have no clue speaking out about something you know nothing about. Here is an article that gives you some of these tips. I appreciate your comment — and recognize that my answer was glib.
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Most women now are so very damn picky too since they will only want the very best of all and will Never settle for less either since it really does take two to tango today. So, I have been divorced from my unfaithful spouse for 2 years now. Who knows but whatever it is. And, hey…I want to know what you think! And in this information age, it is only going to get worse.
Thank you for sharing your experience and your wisdom, Randy.
Anyone can be online. But after a couple of months, the woman makes contact, if it takes that long. There just has to be a better way to meet a half way decent man then the dating sites.
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Neediness is NOT sexy. And while I could clearly have shown more sensitivity to you, my feelings remain the same. Others I know,male and female, just do it more subtley, have friends just happening to be in the same place or sitting a few tables away.